Brief information about alexandrite
Alexandrite belongs to the group of rare and therefore especially valuable gemstones. In Russia, the Ural stone deposits have long since exhausted themselves. The mines for the extraction of alexandrite ceased to function. There are known deposits of the mineral in Latin America, the United States of America and Sri Lanka.
The value of the gem is determined not only by its low abundance, but also by its optical properties, i.e. ability to change color under different lighting. During the day (in natural light) it is a blue-greenish tint. Well, in the evening (under artificial lighting) - ruby-lilac.
A real gem has a fairly high cost. That is why not everyone can afford to have it in the form of a collectible piece or jewelry.
What stones are considered widow's stones?
Often, a person endows physical objects with different properties. Conclusions made on the basis of long observations become “folk wisdom”, and sometimes represent prejudices and superstitions.
Sometimes it comes to paradoxes: one and the same phenomenon is considered a sign of good luck by one people, while by another it is considered a sign of misfortune and misfortune. Precious stones also did not escape this fate. Losing a spouse is considered one of the most tragic events in life.
Having lost her protector and breadwinner, the widow in a patriarchal society could not maintain her usual way of life. Elements of clothing, hairstyle and accessories emphasized her new position. Since then, some stones have received the status of widow's stones.
Alexandrite
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This is the official name for Ural chrysoberyl, first described in 1842. This stone was presented to Emperor Alexander II on his coming of age, in whose honor it received its name. Perhaps the tragic fate of the Russian Tsar was originally the source of the fact that alexandrite is called the widow's stone.
Popular legend says that on the day of the assassination attempt, the emperor did not wear a ring with his favorite stone and was killed. Many ordinary people mourned the Tsar-Liberator, trying to understand the basis for the murder. A ring with alexandrite fit into the theory of fate and fate.
Alexandrite stone is very rare in nature, jewelry made from it has a high price, so they were available only to noble people. In Soviet times, an artificial mineral was created. Jewelry with stones that change color depending on the lighting attracted many women.
The passion for grown corundums in the Union has become widespread. The jewelry industry massively produced rings, earrings, pendants and brooches, covering the jewelry needs of every citizen.
After the end of World War II, funerals returned to many families in place of the men who had gone to fight. Widowhood has spread completely, as has artificial alexandrite. The noble mineral began to be called the widow's stone. The reason for this was also its color: purple shades were associated with despair, despondency, depression and sadness, characteristic of grieving women.
There is no evidence that alexandrite brings widowhood. Some sources explain the term in a recommendation to wear alexandrite in a pair. Not everyone could purchase two stones, but one became a symbol of the lonely fate of the owner.
It is interesting that the reputation of the widow’s stone was assigned to alexandrite only in the territory of the former USSR. In other countries, alexandrite is treated very differently. It is considered a talisman of family ties and the guardian of love relationships.
The energy of the stone is neutral. The positive biofield of alexandrite improves mood, calms, and gives strength. In Russia, the stone has remained a symbol of devotion to one person. Jewelry with it emphasizes the ability to cope with difficult situations alone.
Amethyst
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To express grief over the loss of a loved one, amethyst was often used - one of the most beautiful semi-precious stones from the quartz group with a pleasant purple color. Perhaps due to its characteristic color, this stone in some traditions has gained the glory of a symbol of widowhood.
Inconsolable husbands and wives wore a stone set in silver. It cost less and was therefore available to a wider range of people. Even an impoverished member of the nobility could order a modest ring with a purple sparkle from the master. A person wearing an amethyst was considered closed to new love relationships.
In many countries, amethyst has become a symbol of fidelity to feelings. The stone was used to carry out a vow of devotion to a deceased lover. A mineral given to a loved one, according to magicians, will never allow him to change his feelings. To free a woman from her previous feelings, a ritual of farewell to the stone is performed. Only by giving up amethyst can you once again become open to new meetings and relationships.
In some magical rituals, amethyst plays the role of a homewrecker, on which magicians whisper their spells. The ancient Sumerians considered the mineral a powerful love spell. Using the power of amethyst, the priests broke up the couples. After a lapel session, a woman could remain alone for many years.
Other rituals used the ritual of giving. Evoking strong feelings for the giver, the amethyst left the previous connection in the past, exchanging it for indifference. After betrothal or marriage in the Middle Ages, it was not allowed to give this stone as a gift.
Amethyst can often be seen on clergy and monks. Catholics consider it “episcopal”, and Orthodox Christians consider it “bishopric”. This stone has been decorating church clothes for centuries.
At the same time, amethyst is considered a stone of internal search and concentration. People engaged in mental activity and prone to thinking were advised to wear this stone. It was believed that the crystal would bring peace, help one better understand oneself and focus on the problem.
Amethyst, whose name in Greek means “free from drunkenness,” is often used to treat alcoholism and nervous ailments. It is recommended to wear the stone for people who often experience irritation or anxiety. The mineral has been successfully used to relieve headaches. He will also cope with insomnia, no matter how intrusive it may be. The stone strengthens memory, improves intuition and even helps in the treatment of mental illness.
Black Pearl
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It is surprising that the list of gloomy messengers of sorrow has been supplemented by pearls, which have always been associated with youth and love. This honor falls only to light pearls, and black pearl peas that do not fit into the general framework are considered the tears of widows. According to the romantic version, the mourned souls of sailors who did not return after the storm appeared before divers in the form of black pearls.
Chronicles describe the magical powers of crystals that do not allow a person to find a soul mate. Unmarried men and women who prefer jewelry with pearls can forever remain eligible bachelors and old maids. A stone with attractive beauty will not allow them to see the beauty of a living person.
The owner of jewelry with black pearls does not notice the feelings of others and becomes a narcissistic egoist. It is not necessary to go to shamans and sorcerers; it is enough to simply match the pearl with another stone or metal. Gold jewelry on the hands or a pendant on the chest can block the impact of pearls.
According to other beliefs, jewelry with pearls can reduce sexuality. A person loses the desire to look for a partner. Pearl jewelry in some countries is mandatory for married couples: they act as a talisman for family ties.
Topaz
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It is believed that this mineral creates detachment in a person, freeing the soul from feelings. A person who wears topaz jewelry for a long time can find pleasure in solitude. He won’t even notice how he will miss his chance for happiness.
Ancient magicians used blue topaz for inner enlightenment. People who, after the death of loved ones, lost faith in the future, were lured with its help by black sorcerers. Having given up passion, a person was deprived of feelings, desires and life aspirations.
Pomegranate
Some priests considered the stone, which has a strong magical effect, to be a symbol of misfortune. A strong passion born of a pomegranate can consume a person. Correspondence of famous people and many literary sources talk about coincidences linking grenades with death. The stone is heavy in meaning and attracts separation and loneliness.
Magical properties of the gem
Natural alexandrite has quite strong energy. It is a stone of passion and jealousy, luck and disappointment. The duality of the properties of the gem also preserves a certain parity, i.e. the positive and negative qualities of the stone are in balance. Synthetic alexandrite has no magical properties. This is a crystal that looks like a natural mineral and nothing more.
Who is not suitable for widow's stones?
Since ancient times, people have been trying to understand the inner power of precious stones, selecting them according to their compatibility with the signs of the Zodiac. Astrologers endow minerals with the ability to change a person’s life line. Many of them warn that an incorrectly selected stone can ruin relationships with loved ones and harm your health.
Some stones are not suitable for representatives of certain zodiac signs:
- pomegranate - Pisces;
- alexandrite - Virgos;
- amethyst - Libra;
- topaz - Taurus and Sagittarius.
Widow stones are one of those that can attract loneliness. When choosing them to decorate your image, you should be very careful.
Amethyst
Amethyst stone
Ideas about amethyst changed over different periods.
Among the ancient Sumerians it was a stone of love. The object of adoration was given a charmed amethyst bead to bewitch. But the affection turns out to be insincere. This is a craving against the will. Often this brings misfortune to both.
In Rus', amethyst was also associated with love. The newlyweds exchanged amethysts and swore an oath of fidelity. Even death could not break this spell. The widowed husband remained alone for the rest of his life.
However, in Ancient Greece and Ancient Rome there were no such beliefs. Amethyst was considered a stone of sobriety. It prevented people from getting drunk during a feast and relieved hangovers. Sobriety also meant freedom from illusions, self-deception and other people's influence. Amethyst was used as an amulet to relieve heartache and disappointment.
This stone cannot be called a widow's stone. Its action does not rid a woman of men. On the contrary, some rituals with amethyst promote love. Depends on the goals of the hostess and her faith. What a person believes in is what happens.
How to use it correctly?
Since astrology is a science, it makes sense to trust the judgment of scientists regarding the strength and personality of each stone. Astrologers recommend combining stones, depending on the zodiac sign, since natural materials have a direct relationship with the human body and can affect his health.
But 90% of the stone’s connection with personal failures is just an individual attitude. If a woman knows that a stone can lead to the loss of her husband or provoke loneliness, a program is laid in her brain that is triggered every time she concentrates on the jewelry. Self-hypnosis works real miracles, so you should not perceive stones as a source of failures and personal losses.
It is recommended to wear jewelry not all the time, but only when necessary to emphasize the image. Stones can compress the body, but influencing fate is a controversial issue.
If a woman receives a widow's stone as a gift, and the person who gives it evokes only positive emotions, such jewelry will become a real amulet. There is no need to invent any stories for the stone, since there is not a single scientific evidence linking misfortune with the effects of natural stone.
How to wear and care properly
Alexandrite is a very capricious stone and requires careful care. It is recommended to wash it in warm water with soapy water and a soft brush. Afterwards, wipe dry with a soft, lint-free cloth and store in a storage place. It is necessary to wash and clean the mineral constantly in order to get rid of negative energy.
Alexandrite should be stored in suede bags or boxes with soft walls inside, in a dark and cool place.
Since it accumulates negative energy and can share it with other stones, it is necessary to store the mineral separately from other jewelry.
You need to wear jewelry with Alexandrite stone very carefully and carefully, without exposing it to chemical influences. Knowing the power of the stone, it is worn side by side with other stones that have softer energy, which helps balance the flow of power. Some jewelers are of the opinion that Alexandrite should be worn as a set. There are two reasons for this: the set looks more original and the second reason is that it will get rid of loneliness and widowhood.
